I grew up with two brothers and live with five males so I know a little bit about the opposite sex. One thing I’ve learned is how different males and females are. When men get mad they cuss, when women get mad they cry. When something awesome happens to a guy he does numerous fist pumps or hi-fives, when a woman has something awesome happen she cries.

As you can see males and females are quite different. In my opinion, one of the ways in which they differ the most is in what they find to be sexy. You don’t believe me? Check out my list. I dare you to disagree.

What women find sexy….

A man who can cook.

A man who is good with kids.

A man who can make her feel like a woman.

A man who is a good listener.

A man who loves animals.

A man who is willing to watch a chick flick and will hold her when she cries while watching the chick flick.

A man who knows what he wants.

What men find sexy…




Any combination of all of the three answers above.

Joy Larson is a mother of four boys, graduate of the University of Montana, animal lover and writer.